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How to behave around your ex

By William West of SocialSecrets.Net

What should you do when your ex broke up with you, and you want your ex back? Things aren’t the same anymore, so how should you behave different? What gives you the best chance to win your ex back? Here are 4 tips:

#1 – Have fun:
Flirt like when you first met your ex. Don’t say anything sexual though, just make a little fun of them in a friendly and challenging way.

#2 – Don’t try to bribe:
Don’t try to bribe your ex to take you back. He or she will know why you are doing all these nice things or why you are buying presents. So, this will only make your ex feel bad about the situation and might even cause your ex to avoid you. There is one exception to this rule and that’s when your ex is still in love with you, but broke up to hope to win your attention back. This is very rare though, and only done by women.

#3 – Don’t give too much attention:
Your ex is your ex not your lover, so don’t treat them like they are the middle point of the world. Just behave around them like they are one of your friends. Your conversations might be a little deeper because you know each other better, but except from that treat them like a friend.

#4 – Avoid the break up topic:
Breaking up with someone is difficult because you have to hurt someone. Talking about this will cause feelings of guilt in your ex and will make you look like a weak victim. This weak victim role isn’t attractive, so just don’t start talking about it. When your ex starts about it, it can be ok, but keep away from the victim role.

For more information about this topic go too:
http://www.socialsecrets.net/getexback.html

Contributed by socialsecretsdotnet on March 5, 2009, at 5:52 PM UTC.

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